40 years together: Jan 7, 1977 to today Jan 7, 2017. Better than I could have ever dreamed. 20 top suggestions for a great marriage: 1. get the right guy, 2. laugh, 3. love, 4. work hard, 5. forgive, 6. go on dates, 7. get away together often, 8. read scriptures together, 9. try to see their point of view, 10. share the work, 11. decide who is best with money and let them do their magic, 12. realize you are on the green side of the fence, 13. don't decide or discuss anything when you are too tired, 14. realize you each have strengths and differences and that is a good thing, 15. pretty thin pancake not to have 2 sides (to arguments), 16. take walks together, 17.it's okay to approach child rearing differently just don't let the kid figure that out, 18. go to the temple together, 19. pray together, 20. let your spouse have time for their own individual interests.
Now read them again and that will make 40 top suggestions! |
3 comments:
Thanks for the tips!! And amen to living right there!!
Who would have thought you'd be in Hawaii for your 40th?! So cool! If you could go back and talk to your young New Mexican teenage self, I wonder what you'd tell her. Time flies and DO marry that Tom Herway fella!
Great tips for a great marriage. Looks like you are having a fantastic time celebrating your anniversary! I'm so glad! Love you two!
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